Many thanks & an update

I want to thank everyone for all your advice, comfort and support. I still feel off,but I am trying one day at a time to deal with what’s going on.

My husband & I have decided not to stay together. Its impossible to get along for even a minute at my house. He will be the one leaving and as he says, “I’m just looking for which direction I am going.” We have had problems the entire time we have been married. Its a long story but lets just say he married me for convenience not for love. He didnt decide he actually gave a sh*t until 5-6 years after we got married. I wish I would’ve known 15 years ago. So right now I am sleeping on one of the couches and let him have the bedroom.

I had to take Ariel to the emergency room 2 nights ago. She had told me earlier in the day that her stomach was hurting,but thats just one of those things I thought. By the time I got home at 730, she was crying. she said it was just getting worse & worse,so I took her in. She is doing ok…was dehydrated. The pain she is feeling is because the baby has already dropped into her pelvis and is riding low for only being 31 weeks. She isnt sleeping because of the pain. And all I can do is give her Tylenol and she can take warm baths.

Sabian is great! she went to homecoming with her friends and a boy. Her friend Amanda’s mom made a mum for her. Then she gets to the dance and the boy had brought her one too. She is the one in the middle.

I am going to the doctor tomorrow for my thyroid checkup and I am going to talk to him about all my stress/depression too. I am hoping it will pass on its own. I dont need yet another pill.

15 Comments so far

  1. sandy @ October 18th, 2009

    (((hugs))) and prayers for you, I wish I could make it better. ooxx

  2. angie1o @ October 18th, 2009

    Are those your daughters? They are cute!
    I am so glad that you are going to the doctor and that you are taking care of yourself!!! You will get through this!!!
    I dont fully know your situation but I hope everything works out:)

  3. AuntTeeTee @ October 18th, 2009

    The other 2 girls are here friends. Mine is the one in the middle. My oldest, Ariel wont let me take a pic of her pregnant.lol

  4. khmerbeauty @ October 18th, 2009

    Wait, Tiffany, you guys are separating?
    (((((((TIFFANY)))))))))) I’m so sad to hear that girl. I’m at a loss for words.

    I’m glad your daughters are feeling better.

    The girls are gorgeous just like mum. :)

  5. not2late4tina @ October 18th, 2009

    I liked what you wrote on Nancy’s blog so I clicked to see your name. I ended up on this blog so I wanted to post something and not drive by. :) Your daughter is beautiful. I am very sorry you have going through such a difficult time.

  6. kyliejo @ October 18th, 2009

    Wow, I am sorry to hear the news but glad maybe it will give you a chance to be happy. My parents stay together and believe me, it doesn’t do your kids any favors.
    I really hope the pregnancy for your daughter gets easier a little bit, how scary!
    Well just hang in there, I am glad you are on the road to resolve….

  7. somemansdream @ October 18th, 2009

    Girl, I”m sorry that you guys are going your separate ways. However, I do hope that at the end of things, that you will be happier. 17 ulcers is no laughing matter. You know we are here if you need to talk ok.
    Sounds like a good night for your daughter–she’s a pretty one isnt she.
    I’m glad your going to the doctor–let him help ya any way he can ok.
    Big hugs.

  8. somemansdream @ October 18th, 2009

    aww man, it stole my comment…grr

  9. kamaperry @ October 18th, 2009

    Beautiful girls! Tiffany, I am so sorry. Between you and your husband and your daughter too, you are going thru alot. Stay strong and do check with your dr. You got my prayers and love.

  10. troubled @ October 18th, 2009

    Oh…I don’t know what to say!! Other then I’m sorry about all these hard ships. Maybe its for the better this way? You girl is very pretty! No photos of the pregnant one…that’s to bad! Have you had the baby shower yet? :)

  11. AuntTeeTee @ October 18th, 2009

    Havent had the baby shower yet..its next Saturday the 24th. :)

  12. AuntTeeTee @ October 18th, 2009

    Thank you all for your advice, thoughts & prayers. I appreciate you all very much

  13. eatingtolive @ October 18th, 2009

    Oh, Tiffany.. I am so sorry that you’re going through this.

  14. NicoleM @ October 19th, 2009

    Wow. Thre is a lot giong on. I hpe you daughter starts to feel better and can hold out for a few more weeks. She is so close.

    I am glad your other daughter had a great time.

    Take it easy on yourself and I hope you are able to find a way to relieve your stress. Feel better soon (emotional that is)

  15. amyeaton @ October 21st, 2009

    I am so sorry to hear you are going thru all this right now. I do have a tad of advice for your pregnant daughter though.. when it gets to hurting so bad, get on her hands and knees and put her chest down.. it makes the baby kinda fall up alittle and it does relieve some of the pressure. All 3 of my kiddos decided to try to come early.. put me on bedrest.. and then end up having to be induced in the end.. little stinkers! She’s gonna regret not taking pics once the baby gets here! Try to sneak snap one just so that she’ll have it later! Tell her to be sure to drink lotsssss of water or baby will come early! YOur daughter is beautiful. So glad her night turned out good! Take care of you ok.. you cant take care of everyone else if you’re down.. you have to take care of yourself ok!

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